You do everything couples do…
You text all day, sleep over, meet their friends, and plan your weekends around them.
And that’s exactly why this will hurt.
Because when people ask what you are, they pause.
Then act weird.
Then mumble something like “it’s complicated” or “we’re taking it slow.”
You see that pause, weirdness, and nonsense answer?
That’s the truth you’ve been too scared to face.
You’re not their person.
You’re their trial run.
They're using you to figure out what they want in a real relationship.
You’re teaching them how to love someone else.
And the sick part is, you know it.
Your stomach drops when they avoid simple questions about where this is going.
Your chest gets tight when they dodge talking about the future with you.
But you stay anyway because:
You tell yourself they need time.
That they’ve been hurt.
And that they’re scared.
But time isn’t the problem.
Their lack of intention is.
Because people who truly want you don’t make you guess.
They don’t pause, and they don’t wait.
They grab you fast, before someone else does.
But this person?
They’re keeping you in maybe-land because it works for them.
They’ve got the benefits of a partner…
With the freedom of a stranger.
You cook for them, but they won’t call you their partner.
You’re exclusive, but they won’t make it official.
You act like a couple, but they introduce you as a friend.
You’re giving relationship energy to someone feeding you situationship crumbs.
Every month you stay is another month the right person can’t find you.
While you’re stuck in “maybe,” your “definitely” is looking for you somewhere else.
But they can’t see you…
Because you’re hidden behind someone else’s comfort zone.
You keep saying you’re building something when deep down, you know it’s already broken.
This person is training you to crave confusion.
To call their inconsistency patience.
To confuse chemistry with compatibility.
And to believe that almost is enough.
But it’s not.
You're not asking for too much.
You're accepting too little.
It’s time to stop being their placeholder.
It’s time to stop showing someone how to love so they can do it with someone else.
If you want the precise words to break this cycle…
And the courage to finally put yourself first…
I’m offering only 3 coaching spots this Wednesday.
So, secure your 20-Minute Wake-Up Call now, before someone else takes your spot.
Because if you hesitate now...
You’ll keep living in “almost.”
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