Could She Cheat?

Last week was for the guys, this week is for the ladies. On today’s issue, we’d be looking at;

Let’s begin!!!

Don’t be fooled. Women are skilful cheats. Thanks to the sexual liberation movement, women cheat more than men nowadays.

The current pandemic of paternity fraud by women is a vivid example of this.

Before taking a huge “L” that would probably affect you for a long, long, long, long–hoping you get the point here — time, here are six signs to know if she will likely cheat on you.

This way, at least, you have a fighting chance to avoid the inevitable tears from a relationship breakup.

SIGN 1: SHE HAS A TRACK RECORD OF CHEATING
Before entering a relationship with a woman, inquire about her past relationships and why they ended.

Suppose all her relationships ended because she cheated on her partners; know that you will have to tread cautiously. I know “once a cheat, always a cheat” doesn’t apply to everyone.

This is why you are not looking for a one-off situation. What you should pay attention to are the patterns. If she has a habit of cheating on her exes, then know that you will be another tally on her board.

SIGN 2: SHE HAS FRIENDS WHO CHEAT
We have all heard the saying, “show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are”.

This saying tells us that we tend to be influenced by the people around us more than we would like to admit.

If she has friends you know who cheat on their significant others and have no problem with their behaviour, it is just a matter of time before she emulates them.

SIGN 3: SHE LIES A LOT
If you catch her lying, especially for things that you see no logical or emotional reason why she should lie, it’s a tell-tale sign she can cheat

It takes an excellent liar to cheat. If she is a pathological liar, it means she can cheat on you.

SIGN 4: SHE IS RAPACIOUS
Rapacious is a fancy word to describe an overly materialistic and greedy person.

An excessively materialistic woman nowadays isn’t prepared to do the work that would make her earn what she desires.

She is probably entitled and expects a man to provide her wants and needs. These women are in the habit of replacing men when they can, especially when these men refuse to get them what they want.

She criticizes “broke men” and shames men she perceives to have no money.

A woman with this trait will not think twice about cheating on you with another man who can provide her with all she wants that you are unable or unwilling to get for her.

SIGN 5: SHE ALWAYS LETS HER EMOTIONS CONTROL HER
Any woman who is only led by what she feels will undoubtedly cheat on you with another man when she doesn’t feel she loves you or feels like cheating.

I know the second reason sounds crazy, but trust me, I’ve encountered strange situations and excuses people give for cheating on their boyfriends in this love business.

SIGN 6: SHE HAS NO BOUNDARIES
A woman with no physical, emotional or moral boundaries will most likely cheat because, to her, nothing is off-limits.

Not a place, a situation, an event, or a person. She doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries if she has no limits.

People like this would easily allow access from other men to her (this also means that she probably lives a very loose lifestyle sexually).

She would also most likely go after other men irrespective of their relationship or marital status.

The sad part is that women with this character trait are led mainly by their emotions. Their slogan is “if it feels right to you, go for it”.

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For men not yet in relationships with women showing signs of cheating;
1. Talk Openly: Discuss what you both want from the relationship before starting a relationship with her.

2. See How She Treats Others: Watch how she talks about and treats people. If she's kind and respectful to others, she's likely to be the same with you.

3. Trust The Signs Before Your Eyes: If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, chances are, it’s a duck. If she shows you—by her actions—her true self, believe her and don’t make excuses for her consistent bad behaviour.

For men in relationships with women showing signs of cheating;

4. Talk About Your Concerns: If you're worried she might cheat, speak to her calmly. Share your feelings without blaming her.

5. Consider Counselling: If you're having difficulty trusting each other, seek a counsellor together. They can help you talk things out.

6. Think About Your Relationship: Take some time to think about how things are going. Are you both happy? Do you trust each other?

7. Set Clear Rules: Talk about what's okay and not okay in your relationship. Knowing where you both stand can help you trust each other more.

8. Focus on Your Connection: Spend time building a strong bond with each other. Doing things together and talking openly can help keep your relationship strong.

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