GRIPE OF THE DAY
This week on relationship laws, we’d be tackling;
The 4 things all men have to bring to the table in their romantic relationships.
Tips to provide these qualities.
Let’s begin!!!
WHY YOU SHOULD CARE
As a man, knowing exactly what is expected of you and needed by your woman will make it easier to have a blissful, peace-filled, fulfilling romantic relationship.
This bliss will spread throughout other areas of your life and improve your happiness.
Not knowing, however, will doom you to a cycle of failed romantic relationships, bitter exes, consistent emotional turmoil and stagnation in your love life.
This consistent turmoil can and will spread and negatively affect other areas of your life too.
THE BREAKDOWN
There are things all men should provide for themselves and their significant other when they decide to enter/ start a relationship.
they are;
1. Leadership
Being a man automatically puts you in a leadership role.
Leadership entails taking responsibility, making decisions, being strong and having a vision for your life and the relationship you initiated.
A man is the head of his home and his relationship.
Being responsible means you have to be caring and unselfish.
Being a leader entails leading. YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE LEAD.
Being a leader also entails being strong and not just physically.
Strength also means being able to control your emotions and passions.
2. Security
By security, I mean both physical, financial and emotional security.
Let me explain.
Physical security means protection.
In a relationship, as a man, you are not to use your strength to physically dominate or bully your girlfriend, fiancee, or wife.
Your power is meant to protect her and your children from harm.
YOU SHOULD NEVER BE THE HARM PEOPLE TRY TO PROTECT YOUR PARTNER FROM.
Physical security for married men also means protecting your wife from in-laws and YOUR MOTHER if you have to.
Your wife is the one you made the vow on the altar to love, cherish and PROTECT.
Never allow your mother to have the freedom to insult or talk down on your wife…EVER!!!
Lastly, it means protecting your significant other from herself when you have to, irrespective of how she feels about it.
This is why leadership is the first thing you must bring to the table.
You have to make those decisions that you know would lead to the best outcome possible for her and your family if you have one, even when they don’t feel like it initially.
Emotional security means you should never make the woman you are in a relationship with feel threatened by another woman.
She should never feel she has to compete for your affection with anyone or anything. Women are emotional beings.
Hence their core needs in a relationship will centre around their emotions. You are to make the woman in your life feel loved and cherished
Financial security is the one most men generally know and are biologically attuned to.
First, you should know that no woman likes money for money’s sake.
What they want is the security and lifestyle that comes with money.
It’s all about satisfying their security needs.
Financial security is not just about making money.
It’s also about keeping a “significant portion” A.K.A savings and growing it to make even more money A.K.A investments.
3. Integrity
Integrity in your relationship will make the woman in your life sleep soundly, and you sleep soundly too.
A man needs to provide integrity in his relationship with his woman.
A lack of integrity attacks the woman’s vital need for emotional security.
Your partner needs to know you can be trusted.
4. Accountability
Integrity and accountability go hand in hand.
You can’t be accountable to your spouse if you have no integrity or provide no integrity in the relationship.
Being accountable to your wife/girlfriend/fiancée means you can justify, explain and take responsibility for your actions.
This also means being open and honest about your feelings, concerns, and plans.
It means you communicate openly, listen to your partner’s perspective and consider her feelings and needs when making decisions.
This openness and honesty will build trust and strengthen emotional intimacy in your relationship.
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YOUR PLAYBOOK
1. Leadership
Take initiative in making decisions and taking responsibility for the relationship.
Communicate openly about your vision for your life and the relationship.
Show care and selflessness in your actions towards your partner.
Lead by example.
2. Security
Physically protect your partner from harm when the need arises. Never be the source of the threat your partner needs protection from.
Provide emotional security by ensuring your partner feels loved and cherished, without the need to compete for your affection.
Demonstrate financial responsibility by saving and investing wisely to ensure a secure lifestyle for your relationship and family if you have any.
3. Integrity
Always be honest and trustworthy in your relationship.
Your words should always match your actions.
Don't do things that make your partner feel insecure emotionally.
4. Accountability
Be willing to justify and take responsibility for your actions. Also, remain transparent and open in all your dealings with your partner.
Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings, concerns, and plans.
Listen actively to your partner's perspective and consider her feelings and needs when making decisions.
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